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Dance, dance, dance!

052.jpgToday was my first performance abroad, so I have made my international debut as a dancer, if you can even call me that. At Penn State, I was involved in PSIDE (Penn State International Dance Ensemble). I felt quite global and cultural doing dances from different lands, but dancing hip hop in Japan is a whole different track. It’s been a roller coaster ride of emotions, to be honest.
The dance club I’ve joined in Japan is called PRIME. Essentially, they are an all girl dance club with multiple groups within. I thought it wouldn’t be too hard core, just a fun extracurricular activity. Apparently speculation is not my strong suit.
We practiced twice a week for about 3-4 hours. Getting the choreography down was a challenge since the girls were clearly well versed in hip hop and didn’t really hold back for us poor international students. The rhythm was hard to understand and the delivery still baffles me even now. The moves are so fast and because of that, each move has to be crisp and neat. Most of the time I felt like I was just flailing limbs instead of hitting moves.
019-1.JPG Not only that, but the language barrier is still pretty high and thick for me, so a lot of the time I didn’t know where we were starting from or even where practice was. Luckily, everyone is so nice and patient that I never felt pressure from them because of my mistakes. Unfortunately, I am not so patient with myself. It’s one thing to not be able to speak since you can get away with having a shy personality. When you don’t understand, however, the other part gets involved and that`s when the guilt sets in. I know they feel pressure to just explain it in English, which they don’t have to, but they always try. 

025-.JPGLanguage aside, we managed and I think it all worked out. Of course I was nervous, but it did not take long for the atmosphere to take hold of me. I wanted to dance bigger and harder and before I knew it, the dance was over. In fact, compared to PSIDE, the routines were rather short–about 2 minutes for the one I was in. I really wanted to perform more, but alas my time was up. There are more performances, but today was the school festival, so it was kind of like being on our home base.
I’d like to thank Shiho for teaching us her dance and Mire for giving me some one on one training. Though it gets difficult and frustrating at times to dance and manage the whole Japanese thing, I’m glad to have such a well rounded opportunity while being surrounded by such lovely people.

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Location: Showa-ku, Nagoya-shi, Aichi-ken, Japan

Busy busy busy! Fresher’s week :)

It’s been a while since I’ve written last! Well, the last week+ have been ridiculously busy!

So, highlights of the week+:

My first Sunday we took walk along the Leeds-Liverpool canal (which apparently is the longest canal in the UK) to a pub (Abbey Inn) about an hour’s way toward Bradford and met up with some friends, and saw a ridiculous number of blackberry bushes along the way, and I went back later in the week to pick some!  

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Houseboats along the canal:

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Locks on the Canal!

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Triple locks! 🙂

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Abbey Inn:

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Monday was a ridiculously windy day, and we ended up chasing bed sheets down the street! We had rain for three days before I left the US courtesy of Hurricane Katia. And so Katia made her way across the Atlantic.

Tuesday I was introduced to Primark. It was kind of a scary place in the sense that the prices are sooo cheap, that it’s a bit of a madhouse. I was told when we walked in that it was a sort of place that you didn’t want to spend too much time in, and it was kind of clear why.

Wednesday I moved into my flat, and the madness started. One of my flat mates moved in on Wednesday, and then it was just the two of us until Saturday, when the other three came.

The flat itself is really amazing, and I’m thrilled about this year. We have a hallway with five bedrooms, a bathroom, and a kitchen. The only disappointing part is that there is no common room (not even for the building!) but it’s all working out just fine, as we hang out in the kitchen.

My room: 

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The kitchen:

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Most people in the block moved in either Wednesday/Thursday or Saturday, so for the first few days, there were only about 8-10/45 in the building. That was really nice, as for the first bit, it was easier to remember names, and we all fit (sort of) in one kitchen. By Friday and Saturday we were really ready for more people though.

This week is what’s called “fresher’s week,” which pretty much means “hang out and party/go out,” though a lot of people actually have pre-lectures that they’re meant to be attending. The University Union puts on some great events, and everyone has a blast until we’re forced to settle down for actual lectures.

I’m really excited, because everyone I’ve met in my block (and outside of it too) have been fantastically nice, and I’ve not met anyone that I’ve not gotten along with!

We’ve had a few “family dinners,” in our flat (which unfortunately will probably be more sporadic when lectures start up) which consisted of lasagna (a semi success–tasted like lasagna, but didn’t really look like it–more like soup), and the other was potato and leek soup.

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This year is really going to be fantastic 🙂


Location: Leeds, UK

Cliffs of Moher and Other Adventures

I’ve been really sick lately, and it sucks.  I suppose it was inevitable, though.  I always get sick with a change of environment.

This past Saturday, we took a tour through the Cliffs of Moher, the Burren, the Ailwee Caves, and Bunratty Castle. 

Photo blog, hoorah!


^Cliffs of Moher


^Castle at the Cliffs of Moher


^Cliffs of Moher


^Me at the gift shop at the Cliffs of Moher. hah.


^The Burren. Kinda cool lookin’, yeah?


^Roommates at the Burren.


^Ailwee Caves. Pretty cool. They turned the lights completely out and you couldn’t even see your hand in front of your face. A bit commercialized, but still fun.


^Self-explanatory.


^Roomie shot again.


^We found a phone booth! :]

Also, I went to a pub Sunday night to watch the Superbowl.  Being from Pittsburgh, I was really rooting for my Steelers.  The rest of the pub, however, was on Green Bay’s side.  I’m not quite sure why the Irish like Green Bay, but it was really embarrassing losing…and it was not fun being harassed all night.  Over-all experience?  Horrible.  Hah.  Never again.

Other than that one bad night, I am starting to really love everyone here.  Time is flying by.  Ut oh.

Cheers,
Melanie


Location: Limerick, Ireland

a brief update and a plant

+ I am cooking more now! It only took 6 months, but I have progressed from frozen fish and pasta to more complicated endeavors. I’m only progressing because I’m making Bertie dinner for his birthday tomorrow night. I tested my recipe/meal on my best friend here, Joe, last night and it was fabulous. For the main course I’m making chicken stuffed with mozzarella and wrapped in bacon with home made oven chips. So yummy! I was so pleased with myself when it turned out edible and delicious. For desert, I’ve attempted a panna cotta. It’s still setting so we’ll see if that actually worked in the morning. 

+ I bought a basil plant to make my pastas more flavorful. And to make some awesome pesto. His name is Fred.
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+ I spent last weekend in London filming a short. I am producer/co-writer/actor. Editing is going on now, but that’s Bertie’s department. I’m set to act in another short for someone this Sunday and that could be interesting. I’m also starting writing on another short for this semester and Bertie and I are brainstorming a feature film idea, too. Lots of filming stuff! I love it.
+ I tried to go to bed about an hour or so ago (it’s only 10pm, but I have a cold and a busy day here), but I was overcome with sadness about it being February. Currently, I’m thinking of going back to America the first of July, but I just don’t want to. The thought that I have to return to America at all makes me sick and sad. My life here is a million times happier than back at Penn State and my friends are better than most of people I’ve met at PSU. That sounds harsh, but oh well. It’s my blog. And I fit in better here. People are more genuine. My friend Joe is already looking at/buying plane tickets to come visit me in September while a couple of my other friends are asking parents for money to do the same. That’s incredible friendship. 
And I know I’m coming back here, well, to London. I have a place to stay in London all lined up. I have friends. I have plans. I have dreams. I just don’t have a visa. I will have to jump through hoops on that. But I will come back. I will not just hang about in the States. I just don’t like getting all sad about the inevitable last semester at PSU. At least I only have one left! 

Location: Leeds, UK

Trip to Galway

Yesterday, a group of my friends and I traveled to Galway for the day.  This will be an entire photo blog.  Enjoy.

Starting off with some photos from Friday night, which we spent at Stables:


^Jennie and myself about to go out.


^How much one Irish person drinks in a week.


^Katie’s first Guinness.


^Friends

Our trip to Galway:


^On the way to the bus station at 8AM. Moon still out :]


^We made it!


^Friars River


^More River


^Me


^Meagan and Danielle on the River


^Katie and me being goofy.


^Pretty cool tree.


^Leaf imprinted on the sidewalk.


^Cute sign.


^Found on a trashcan. hah.


^Human Statue.


^Spanish Arch.


^Spanish Quarters.


^Street shot.


^Excellent.


^Broken clock.


^COOKIES!


^Pretzel from a street vendor.


^Some things we found in the shops were just wonderful.


^Bike with flowers :]


^If there are musicians…I will find them.


^Band called Keywest. Incredible. Here is a video of them.


^Real Irish Music (we had no idea he was behind us).


^They were fun!


^SO MUCH GOOD MUSIC.


^Excellent, right? Right. Right, right, right.


^Buildings.


^Cathedral from a distance.


^Cathedral up close.


^HUUUUGE Cathedral.
^Organ inside the Cathedral.


^Candle inside the Cathedral.

A LOT OF PHOTOS, I KNOW. Gonna look for a better way to do this (put a slideshow in? eh?).

Cheers,
Melanie


Location: Galway, Ireland

My day in a typical English home with typical English people

There are definitely many positives to attending a huge school like Penn State. One is how there are students there from all over the world. Even in my sorority, Sigma Sigma Sigma, we have sisters from all over. One of my sisters, Eleanor, is from London. And I wasn’t sure if I would be able to visit her because she and her family are moving to Bermuda. But, the moving day was pushed back and I was invited to her home!

Eleanor lives in Ealing Common, which is west of Central London just outside of it. She lives in an English row of homes, similar to this. She gave me a tour of her house as well. One of the main differences I noticed when I first came to London was how everything seems so “small” here compared to the United States, and I do mean that in terms of living space. Eleanor pointed out that in America, we have room to build wide whereas in London, they build up. Her home though was (to me at least) a good sized home like I would see in a city like New York. Her mother is American while her father is English so they do have a mix of both America and England in their home.

A few of her friends also came over for lunch and they were just as interested in America as I was interested in England. One thing I was worried about when I arrived in London was whether people here would receive an American like myself well. Luckily, most of the ones I’ve ran into are very kind and very interested in America. Probably the number one question I get from the English here is “What do you think of President Obama?” They are very surprised when they run into an American who says they don’t approve of him. I do approve of him so I give them a straight answer of “A good job, better now that things are getting better in the economy.” And yes, I was quite bummed to find out the President would make a visit to Dear Old State while I’m here. But, I’m getting over it… slowly.

Some questions Eleanor’s friends asked me was about how big soccer is in the States (I said around the World Cup it’s big but not very celebrated otherwise); is New York City worth a visit (Absolutely- it never disappoints); how big is Disney World (huge, way bigger than Disneyland Paris and though expensive, worth it); what are the winters in Pennsylvania like (much worse than London, the 38 degree weather we’re having right now is actually balmy compared to State College); and summer in Pennsylvania (very hot).

In turn, I asked questions to them, like is it worth it to go to a football match (definitely- it’s like going to a Penn State football game); is American football here big at all since the Super Bowl is coming up (not really; people will watch the Super Bowl but they’re more into their version of football); and what vacation spots are popular with the English in the summer (more southern places usually in Europe like the south of France, Spain, and Italy because it’s very easy and cheap to travel around Europe).

I also finally had my first cup of tea! Eleanor made sure to use the special china to serve tea in. I put sugar and milk in because I thought it would be necessary. I was worried about trying it, but it was delicious! I never really had tea back in the States, but I definitely enjoyed my tea here. I’m actually craving tea right now! I think I’m going to go to the local supermarket, either Waitrose’s (which I equate to Wegman’s) or Tesco’s (which I equate to Weis) to get some.

It was definitely a joy to spend the day with Eleanor. I feel so lucky to have a friend from school who actually lives here. Now that she has graduated, I’m able to see her here more than back at school. I am hoping to see her again before she moves because it’s a little of home for me to see a friend. And I loved being able to interact more with other English (and they do refer to themselves as English. British accounts for all of the UK whereas English refers to just the people of England) students and staying in an English home for the day. It’s an experience I’m getting that other students here didn’t really have and I hope to have the opportunity again.


““Me and Eleanor back at Penn State!!

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Location: Ealing Common, London, England

Reason #3 for why I will move to England: Orange Wednesdays

Orange Wednesdays are the greatest days. Every Wednesday my mobile provider, Orange, gives out a code so I can get 2-for-1 Pizza Express and cinema tickets. So every Wednesday Bertie and I go to Pizza Express for either lunch or dinner (sometimes both) and we each have dough balls and then I order a La Reine pizza (mushrooms, ham and olives) and he orders the American (a lot of pepperoni). We also go to the cinema at least once, but half the time we go twice. We both have Orange so we can do that. 

This is being mentioned now because I have my last final in an hour and a half for my “sexuality, subculture and stigma” module. While it was my favorite module this term, I didn’t put as much time as I should have for this exam. Mostly just a few hours yesterday. But I’ve been busy actually having a life and living up my year abroad, so it’s justified. Also, if I get a 2 on this exam I get a C at PSU and credit for the module. Not that I’m aiming for a C, but it’s still comforting. Am glad I rocked my first essay!
I met up with a friend from my LJ blog Monday! We’ve known each other for a couple of years online now and she lives in Leeds/goes to the uni here. We were just too lazy/busy to meet up in the fall so we finally got around to it. Her housemate made us dinner and I went out with her and two of her friends for the night. We had a fantastic time!
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(Rachel on left, myself on right)
Anyway, I should stop procrastinating now and cram a bit more. And sleep afterwards. I don’t sleep the night before if I have an exam before noon out of fear that I’ll oversleep. Yes, I am paranoid. Yes, I am exhausted right now.

Location: Leeds, UK

Ireland. Tomorrow? Wait, what?

I am currently sitting in the Pittsburgh airport.  My flight goes out of Pittsburgh at 5:45pm into JFK.  I leave JFK at 9:40pm and arrive at the Shannon airport in Ireland at 9:00am.  I will try to sleep on the plane so my jet lag isn’t horrendous.  If there is even a crying baby…..

I was in Antigua from January 1-8, trying to get my tan on (which is impossible.  I am almost always incredibly pale…..will fit right in in Ireland).  It was a nice getaway, but then I had to face the chore of unpacking from a week vacation and packing for four months.  Packing was not the most fun in the world, but I got it done.  Fingers crossed I didn’t forget anything (though, let’s be honest, I am sure I did).

I went up to State College for the weekend to hangout with my friends one last time.  Saying goodbye to everyone was way more difficult than I ever thought it would be.  I whined to some of my best friends, “I don’t want to leave you,” over and over.  But I’m starting to get more comfortable now that I’m in the airport and on my own.  I don’t think Ireland is ready for me.

Will update again once I get settled in!  Hoping the internet is the first thing I hook up when I get into my new room.  I will be sharing with five other people, but they did not tell me who (pumped for that surprise).

Here are some photos from my vacation in Antigua and my last weekend in Pittsburgh!

Cheers,
Mel


Location: Pittsburgh International Airport

Life is still good

The first week of final exams is over and tomorrow starts the second (and last) week of them. I already turned in my 3000 word international politics essay and sat my geography exam. The exam went well and the essay, well, it’s finished. It was really hard to care about those two modules because I was just interested. But that basically sums up my entire university career: stuck in modules/courses/majors that I actually don’t like. Whoops. Anyway, I just have one exam left and it is for my favorite module “Sexuality, Subculture and Stigma”. I’m already feeling prepared because I did a lot of work/reading throughout the module and the topics on the final are of personal interest to me. So that should go well. 
Onto more exciting matters. 
I’ve been back in Leeds for almost 2 weeks now, but until a few days ago I hadn’t unpacked. I had just been busy working so I left my suitcase to sit in the middle of my floor. Well, when I went to unpack it (Thursday?) I discovered that my jumbo container of shampoo my mom bought at Wal-Mart for me had exploded. Yes, it was in a bag, but that didn’t help at all. So I sorted everything into two piles: shampoo-ed and not shampoo-ed. Cleaned off my food stash and then looked at the suitcase. I used 2 mops, my one towel, two t-shirts and a sock to scrub and wash and dry and repeat. It took me over an hour to get most of the shampoo off and I decided that was OK. I then called my mom about my clothes. She told me just to put them in the wash and it’d be OK. 
I did.

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It was not OK. 
The housing office man thought it was funny. The cleaner did not. Housing man gave me a free wash to try again (it worked!), but it still ended up costing me about 10 pounds ($16) to do laundry that day. It’s super expensive here and I was quite annoyed. But it’s all good now! And aside from a faint scent of shampoo and the taste of it on one of my toothbrushes, you can’t even tell.
My friends and I have been hanging out/procrastinating/all that loads even though we’re super busy with exams/essays. And it’s been loads of fun, as usual. I’m getting a new flat mate too since one of them dropped out last semester. One of the girls from my belly dancing class said she got moved to my building so we think it’s her! Could be exciting.
I’ve also bought my one way ticket to Madrid for April. I’m visiting my best friend who will be studying abroad in Cordoba. Since I have the entire month off, we’re going to travel to Italy and such. I can’t book my return yet, though, because we haven’t figured out where exactly we’ll be. Good planning, yes?
Am also going to London (yes, again) in two weeks to have a pre-birthday thing for Bertie with his friends there and to (hopefully) go back to the Comedy Store. Yes, I spend a lot of time in London. It’s still my favorite place in the world, though. 
I have so much more I could say, but I shall refrain from flooding the internet with any more babble. 
xxx

Location: leeds, uk

Back in the States…

After long and sad goodbyes at the airport, I finally boarded the plane and came back to the good ol’ US of A.

I feel so honored to have made so many good friends in these short 4 months. I did not want to come back, not just yet. I felt like I have so many things left to do in Japan. This study abroad experience has been one of the most memorable events in my life. This experience has also started me in thinking about possible career options in Japan. I am planning on minoring in Japanese, along with my IT major and Supply Chain minor. It’ll be busy work but I do not want to lose my Japanese speaking skills. 
I got back last night at 11PM last night. My plane landed in NYC at around 6PM, and I went through customs without any problems. I met my family 30 minutes later and we went to eat and then we drove back to Philadelphia.
Looking back at the times in Japan, I feel like it was all a dream. It seems like so long ago already. Now I have to get used to the American lifestyle again. First, I will need to sleep normally. I only had 4 hours of sleep last night; I don’t know if it’s because of jetlag or because I just normally don’t sleep at normal hours.
I will definitely keep in touch with all my friends back in Japan. They were the reason I didn’t want to board the plane back to America! I miss them all already, but I know I will see them again in the near future!

Location: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania