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Personal Encounters

I find that I learn so much more about Indian culture from talking to people than from sitting in class.

Today, I spoke with Dheeraj, a man I volunteer with for the Right to Food Campaign, and he signs his last name as Kumar, which is not his family’s last name, because surnames are associated with caste. He chooses to not associate himself with caste, as many people do for political and personal reasons. I found this so interesting because in an urban setting, it isn’t often that issues of caste (a hindu social class system) are brought up, but it is still very much a part of society.

I realize I haven’t blogged much but I keep having these “love India” and “hate India” moods depending on my encounters. Generally, I am learning a lot and am enjoying myself, but catch me after a rickshaw ride and I will be in the worst mood possible.

There was one thing I wanted to share though. I am taking a yoga class and I am completely in love with it. I want to say I have always loved yoga, but this would be a lie. I loved yoga when I started practicing at 12 years old, and I enjoyed it for a long time after, but when I got to college, I didn’t practice and I would try to attend classes of different types and I really couldn’t get into it again with so much on my mind. I was afraid that it just didn’t work for me but I have been going twice a week again (forcing myself at first) and gradually it got a little better. I was so far from myself that I couldn’t enjoy or appreciate time alone connecting to my soul. I think I was afraid. I am finally at the point where I look forward to it again. We are all amazing on the inside, and we should enjoy that time exploring ourselves immensely.

To share my experience a little more deeply, I want to explain what yoga means to me. It is not a Hindu or religious practice but a way of life, excellence in everything you do and care about. Anything can be yoga, but the point, according to the yoga sutras, is to find your core, return to a natural state of happiness and peace, and to cleanse your mind so you can be live through the truth, not the clouded perceptions we acquire. Physical practice combined with breathing and meditation help in achieving the goals.

Another really cool thing about India is that despite western influence, you can find an abundance of natural medicines, makeup and beauty supplies, and all for super cheap. Aryuvedic products (products made from natural animal-free sources) are very popular, but whenever I go to a salon, people still try and convince me to use American brands because they are more expensive and popular, but definitely not better.


Location: Delhi, India

Words do no justice to Delhi’s complex environment

I’m was just sitting inside eating dinner as the maid watched me, unable to eat until I finish. I could see my “Aunty” or the woman who is hosting me outside from the window. It is a full moon tonight so she is outside praying from 8pm to 10pm. Dinner was awkward without her but I texted my friend about a 3am cab ride to the train station that is happening in the morning. I am going to Jaipur, the capital of Rajasthan in the morning.

Anyway, this is my first blog post from Delhi and I wanted to find a way to convey all the emotions I’ve had since I arrived almost 3 weeks ago, but there are just too many things to write about. It is a beautiful, dirty, chaotic, crowded, historic and yet modern metropolitan city with a mix of conservative Indian tradition and western-styled liberalism. In India, Delhi specifically, there is so much to take in; between colorful bazaars, cows walking the highway, angry rickshaw drivers that overcharge you, young homeless children begging for food, and a confusing mix of wildlife and metropolis, I can’t begin to accurately describe the environment. You really can find anything here, including cute vegan-friendly wifi cafes in Hauz Khas Village/Market. This is the spot where I feel most comfortable and “homey” while I study.

Today is also Rakhi, a holiday celebrating brothers as protectors of sisters. On this day, siblings get together and exchange gifts. Sisters give brothers a bracelet tied with a red string that has decorations on it, and brothers give their sisters sweets and presents. As an only child wanting to celebrate the holiday, I found another only child in my abroad program, Jeremy, to be my Rakhi brother.

Pictures are to come, including one from the Taj Mahal with my friend Marnie and a guy who asked to join our photo.  The awkwardness is still an ongoing joke between us.


Location: Delhi, India

Awaiting my trip to India

Hey guys,

My name is Carolyn Vilardi and I am a student of Sociology and Human Geography at Penn State University. I have many passions and interests like human and environmental justice, vegetarian cooking, yoga, writing, and a bunch more; and I know that my study abroad experience will awaken new passions and enrich my journey as a student and global citizen.

I will be studying in Delhi, India for Fall 2012, beginning my junior year in mid-July. I am especially excited to experience a new culture and lifestyle, and although I have a few ideas and expectations regarding my trip, I realize that I will encounter many surprises.

I can’t wait to share more about myself and my encounters in India as I travel, study and interact in a new place. I hope my reflections evoke a new understanding and enthusiasm for our world. I am so eager to explore India; I already started packing!


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